🏰 Tier 2: In-Person Session Protocols (Advanced)
✅ Consent, Ethics, and Legality
- Know your local laws: what’s legal in BDSM, what isn’t (e.g., nudity, physical contact)
- Use consent forms or verbal recorded consent before play
- Define safe words, hard/soft limits, and exit plans in every scene
✅ Secure the Location
- Use vetted, session-friendly spaces (like pro dungeons you’re affiliated with)
- Never host unknown subs at your home or private space without screening
- If using a hotel, book it in your name—never theirs
✅Vetting & Screening
- Require government ID blurred (name + birthdate)
- Use apps like Mr. Number and Verifyhim
- Collect basic consent forms (limits, health issues, safe words)
- Use a “first-time tribute” as a barrier to weed out unserious men
✅Safety Measures
- Share your session time and location with a trusted confidante
- Use code word check-ins (before, and during)
- Use a safety apps like Noonlight
- Never leave your phone unattended in the room with a submissive
✅Cleanliness & Health
- Use gloves, condoms, disinfecting wipes for tools/furniture
- Know your sub’s health status & history (esp. blood play, breath play)
- Have a “crash kit”: aftercare kit, water, wipes, compression blankets
- Clean tools before/after sessions (toy cleaneralcohol wipes, UV light)
- Wear gloves for impact, bodily fluids, or pegging