🛡️ Safety for In-Person Sessions

🔑 Key Point 1: Pre-Session Screening is Non-Negotiable

“Before they kneel, they must qualify.”

Never book a session without:

• Tribute first (no tribute = no conversation)
• A fully completed vetting form
• A government-issued ID (blurred except photo & age)
• Confirmation of session type, length, and limits in writing

Bonus: Create an “Application to Kneel” Google Form.

🔑 Key Point 2: Dungeon Etiquette 101

“You’re not just a Domme in a dungeon. You are the standard.”

If using a professional dungeon:

• Arrive 15–30 minutes early
• Bring your own essentials (gloves, wipes, tools, aftercare)
• Treat all dungeon owners and staff as collaborators—not servants
• Clean up after your session (leather wipes, sanitizer, gloves disposal)

Tip: Keep a “Session Kit” bag packed at all times.

🔑 Key Point 3: Travel & Hotel Sessions

“Anywhere you go becomes your throne—but only if you’re prepared.”

For hotel/Airbnb sessions:

• Book in your name. Never let the sub handle the reservation.
• Choose upscale or discreet properties with surveillance.
• Use temporary phone numbers (Google Voice) for communication
• Never meet in lobbies—control entry point and timing

If traveling to a sub’s city:

• Require higher tribute to compensate for risk
• Schedule backup sessions with known clients if possible
• Have a safety contact and check-in system set up

🔑 Key Point 4: Your Safety Ritual

Before every session:

• Clean and pack your tools
• Text your session contact: time, location, name of client
• Meditate or script your Domme persona
• Visualize being safe, centered, and in complete control
• Carry backup items: first aid, snacks, painkillers, backup cash/card

During session:

• Set the rules clearly before play begins
• Have the safe word pre-established
• Stay sober. Keep full awareness of your environment 

🧠 Domme Mindset Shift:

“I am sacred space. I will not be touched, rushed, or endangered.”

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